Down the Black Hole

I think that there are certain people who have a certain energy, bad energy that when you are in contact with them  you end up sucked in a black hole.

My question is why do I keep getting myself attracted to such a negative thing, it doesn’t even make me feel good.

There is a certain person in my life who has been present for the past 3 years, we had some good times but mostly we bring misery to each other, we put each other in temptation, we are curious about each other’s lives for all the wrong reasons and we know that we are a recipe for disaster together,  so Why in god's name did i choose to bring him back in my life?

Is it because us humans like bringing misery to ourselves?  Usually I like to be surrounded by happy, positive, colourful  people not with someone that drags me down to an emotional roller-coaster .and for what... for nothing.

I do try to get myself away but I find myself sending that email, checking my phone maybe I got a BBM, spying on what the plans for the weekend are maybe we might accidentally pop into each other.

I hope there is Tequila at the end of the Black Hole, anything is better with a shot of Tequila!

And as Pinky says one must take the good with the bad so hopefully we might be able to post something good in this situation(at some point or another).

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Excuse me...he's mine!

I always assumed that my happy nature made me immune to the green bug eyed monster also known as jealousy!

So it was rather shocking when all of a sudden the Green Monster and I were down at the watering hole planning the death of a Frog.

I am a natural flirt...I am not the sleazy kind of flirting but the 'friendly flirting'. I make jokes, we laugh I flick my hair but at the end of the day I do not want to get in your pants.When I go out alone or with my better half I speak to everybody and never had issues with him about me talking to boys or any issues with him if a girl goes a talk to him.

Some people may tend to get jealous but I honestly always found it funny when someone flirts with him as to me it is like 'Hey ma man's hot and other girls want his attention'.

A problem (in my case jealousy) however does occur when people cross the LINE!

Let's define crossing the line. What does it mean to ME personally when someone crosses the line.

• He tells you he has a girlfriend. You are aware of this yet still try to get it on with him.
• You text him after a night out.(unless it is not to thank him for a lift home or a drink or for some gesture he did)
• If he is out with his girlfriend you get him alone and go talk him. But in her presence you just smile and barely step within 6 feet of him.
• You insist on pointing out how he flirted with you and lead you on, yet we all know he was just being friendly

The point of this blog is that...I was a chicken and I did not tell this FROG my opinion. On the contrary I gave her space and let her be. While inside the Green Eyed monster and I were plotting which would be the best way to pull out her hair, or if shaving her eyebrows would be necessary. But in the end I knew she was leaving in a short while so I decided not to waste my energy on this issue.

She did how ever screw things up on her own. She ended up getting drunk, yelling and balling her eyes out in front of my better half which seriously freaked him out (he can't handle a woman crying).

And in the end she left on a jet plane ( thank god) and we do not know when she'll be back again (hoping never).

Moral of my post :

• Let bygones be bygones. 
• Trust your better half
• Do not get drunk and cry in front of your crush- it only annoys your crush and makes you look like an ass.
• Green eyed monster and you can have some fun in your head but it is useless going further than that!

I Am Bradley Manning

America claim they are the land of free, where they are proud of freedom of speech...until someone like Bradley comes along, then the freedom of speech goes down the drain.  

Have any of you heard about Bradley Manning? After watching this video I was shocked to see what this guy had to go through just because he choose to speak the truth.

Have a look. 

So now that you watched it what do you think? I admire the guy for having the balls to speak up, he is showing us the damages that war produces, he is showing us what America was hiding all along, what journalists have never dealt with because they were too scared. He is being charged as helping the enemy, but the way he is being made to suffer is horrendous , he is being tortured – wire cages, paraded naked, light on for 24 hours, why is getting such a treatment when others who did worse get less. He is facing life imprisonment or even a death sentence.

We need to expose stories like these more and not torture who dares speak up.  

Bradley Manning is nominated for a Noble Peace Prize .... if you want to see him win it please sign the petition found on this page.

Let’s spread the word.