Tears stream down your face; and while you are alone in your room, you weep and bend over in pain! You feel stupid, shamed and useless.
However in public you act like all is fine. "Yeah I'm cool. So glad that's over" or "Whatever! Yeah let's party!"
Thinking about it you knew deep down that this bubble was bound to burst, although in denial you always knew that your bubble would be short lived.
It is pointless crying over your past! You must learn from it and come to the conclusion that bubbles are just not worth it.
We may not want to admit that our friends are right. Far from it!! In fact if the topic ever comes up you'll brush it away. But we must learn from our mistakes, embrace our bubble in a new light. See it as a learning phase, as something that most people go through.
Look around you...everyone has had what I called bubbled syndrome. A couple of circumstances I can think of are:
- Dating someone who is hurting you.
- A 'friend' who is back stabbing you.
- An impossible task we try so hard to achieve that no matter what we push people aside to achieve it.
- Doing something that harms you and others around you.
- Being selfish and in denial to the truth.
I Pinky too had a bubble and I refused to pop it! I carried it around and pretended everything was fine. But then my bubble popped and I began cracking and cracking and then I broke into pieces.
And it was my dear friends who fixed me up; who told me everything is going to be all right; that rainbows and unicorns will once again come to inhabit my subconscious!
So be strong, be brave and learn from your mistakes...think about it...'is my bubble worth it?'
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